Friday, November 14, 2014

UNTITLED 2

Hi my lovely lovelies!!! It's finally Friday and 47 days more to the end of 2014. How was your week, I hope it was good? Well, mine was less stressful just that I tagged this week NO NETWORK WEEK . See ehn, this network matter show me shege o, glo will be showing me 3G, yet to send common text message na wahala talk more of browsing. Then this week, my obsession with animated movies increased too notwithstanding the network rubbish. But the week is over anyway, thank God the week is over.


Today we have another untitled post, if you missed the first one, check here. So I just have to let y'all know that whenever you see UNTITLED, be afraid!!!! be verrrry afraid!!!! (in Blue from Rio's voice) because it means y'all will be answering questions. Take it as a form of debate, cos everyone will have to pick a side.
Today's topic is; IS CHEATING A MISTAKE OR A PREMEDITATED ACT?
On Monday, a friend and I were having a discussion, and I can't remember what he said, but it led to cheating, and then he said "mistakes happen". So that's what led to this debate.
HERE'S WHAT I THINK;
The Merriam Webster Dictionary tells me that to cheat means;
to break a law or rule usually to gain an advantage at something
I know that majority of us have been cheated on and have cheated.  If you know you've never been cheated on or you've never cheated, raise your hand. Oya move to one side, I'll attend to you later. I also know for certain that cheating is not a mistake.


You see, a mistake is when you mean to type 'A' and then you type 'E' instead, or you mean to put salt in your soup but you put sugar instead because their containers look alike. Cheating is therefore not a mistake, since you do not trip and land on a dick or loose your footing and land inside a vagina- whenever that is possible, then cheating is allowed to be a mistake.
I hope y'all know that the cheating I'm talking about does not refer exclusively to sex? See, when you're emotionally cheating it's even worse. You know that person you have those mushy chats with late at night after you've told your girlfriend at 8pm, or the guy you send pictures of your boobs who isn't your boyfriend, or the one you exchange those lovey dovey messages with? That right there is cheating my friends.

Now tell me again how cheating is a mistake. At least if the first message or nude picture you sent was a mistake, which I strongly doubt, the subsequent ones nko?
Even the famous one-night stands are premeditated consciously or subconsciously.  No matter how stoned or drunk you are. if cheating on your partner has never crossed your mind before, if the girl like make her ynash be like Beyonce, Kim and Nicki combined, you throway face. If you didn't discuss having a one-night stand with your bestie 2 weeks ago, no matter how much the guy looks like Morris Chestnut or Terrence J, you will look the other way when he comes.
You go to a guy's place, and he drugged you and had sex with you. We should sue that guy but slap you for going there in the first place. What were you thinking he invited you over for? To look at his cute baby pictures together? Babe abeg no vex, but you dull.
So my lovelies, that's how I see it, what's your view on the matter? *claps hands in glee* I can't wait to see your comments.


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Till the next time I see you again, Stay Beautiful n Handsome, and STOP CHEATING
XOXO


20 comments:

  1. Alright..Cheating,cheating. There is the intended one, the accidental one. Some people cheat because they wanna get even..in cases where one of the partners have done it. Others are lost in the moment,you have had a long day, enter a bar, have a drink ,get high, talk to someone nice, get carried. I am not justifying anything, but eh life is tight, the reasons as to why people do the things they do are many. I enjoy relationship talk because I am relational being. Nice blog Esther. Joined the bus of your followers
    ririzmusings.blogspot.com

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    1. Welcome on board Ririz!! Followed you back
      Thanks for the input

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  2. Deep and concise

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  3. But I have mushy chats with you, does that mean.......*pensive*. LOL there is no such thing as accidental cheating or cheating been a mistake. You are fully aware of what you doing at that moment and time. Great piece you have here.

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  4. You this yeye girl, you want to set me up abi?
    Thank you

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  5. Huh?!...First of, Hiya mami, its been a while....Erhmmm...is that even a question?....Cheating a mistake???....Hell to the No!!!! Mami...if I gotta be honest...The times I cheated when I was single....I did it KNOWINGLY.....It is NEVER a mistake...it is ALWAYS a conscious act...

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    1. Tibs Mami, I know you're terribly busy, so you're forgiven
      Exactly.... We always know when we do these things

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  6. People who wanna cheat will cheat ...no excuse. We just need to open our eyes n mind to scrutinize people we wanna date or settle down with. Alotta wolves in sheep's clothing abound!

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  7. Dis matter long ooo. Personally I think cheating can b both premeditated and a mistake. Let me give a seemingly unrelated example. If u invest in a business and it crashes and burns and u end in loosing everything investing in dat business was a mistake. Bt yes u went in2 it of ur own volution. Some things only become a mistake after d consequence. So don't engage in somtin if u don't wanna face d consequences.

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    1. It's a very long matter o.... You just gave me a new perspective, but I still think it's more premeditated than a mistake

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    2. Ada, i dont quite agree with your comment Bubba. :(

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  8. CHEATED BY MISTAKE??? WEIRD!
    ITZ XO INTENTIONAL. THOUGH IT COULD BE A REVENGE BUT REVENGE AIN'T MISTAKE EITHER.

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    1. Hehehehehe I love you already.. A million likes for this comment. I think oftentimes, we cheat out of an intent to hurt the significant order, hence our heads are a tad clouded.. We only realize our mistakes after the deed is done and we get to think clearly. it is well ooo...

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  9. I see untitled and my heart beats two times faster...hahaha. okay cheating...cheating is not a mistake. Before u do am u go don tink am...let's be realistic. You must have thought about it but then you bone the consequences. Cheating is not a mistake. Shikena.

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    1. :) Moby!!! I love this gehs energy ehn... :)

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  10. Okay Esther Koko, how are you Baby mi? First of you are getting a lot more awesome daily. I mean i so admire the reality with which you blog. You see ehn, this cheating thing is done in full consciousness. Thank you for stating it but, one doesn't have to do sharp sharp penetration to cheat, it starts with the odd hours calls, the over caring, the sending boobs as pictures ( by the way, I am still waiting for a geh not my bae to send me one ooo **winks) and then the sex occurs. You see in my confused eyes, we only cheat intentionally, and like Eniola said, it could be out of pain or revenge, but what ever causes it, I am sure that it is no mistake oh jari. I dunno why I like to say thus, but we guys will be guys. That i cheat on you ( say we were dating) doesnt mean i love you less, it just means i wanted to watch another station. I know this is wrong, but If i have random sex all day with someone else, and then i go home and call you just before i sleep, and tell you I love you, then its you that truly owns my heart, and the other Random sex partner was probably to loose steam. E go better. :) Cheers Bubba, I admire the reality with which you write.. We should have lunch soon and you should pay for the lunch ooo Esther Koko, dont you think so? **Shines teeth. Cheers.

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  11. Awwwww!! Duru Bubba!!! You just come here and make me blush anyhow abi....
    I would v jumped at that lunch offer o, but guy I like osho free o, cept we'll go dutch on it....
    As for the boobs sending scandal, my hand no dey o

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