Hi my lovely lovelies!!! It's finally Friday and 47 days more to the end of 2014. How was your week, I hope it was good? Well, mine was less stressful just that I tagged this week NO NETWORK WEEK . See ehn, this network matter show me shege o, glo will be showing me 3G, yet to send common text message na wahala talk more of browsing. Then this week, my obsession with animated movies increased too notwithstanding the network rubbish. But the week is over anyway, thank God the week is over.
Today we have another untitled post, if you missed the first one, check here. So I just have to let y'all know that whenever you see UNTITLED, be afraid!!!! be verrrry afraid!!!! (in Blue from Rio's voice) because it means y'all will be answering questions. Take it as a form of debate, cos everyone will have to pick a side.
Today's topic is; IS CHEATING A MISTAKE OR A PREMEDITATED ACT?
On Monday, a friend and I were having a discussion, and I can't remember what he said, but it led to cheating, and then he said "mistakes happen". So that's what led to this debate.
HERE'S WHAT I THINK;
The Merriam Webster Dictionary tells me that to cheat means;
to break a law or rule usually to gain an advantage at something
I know that majority of us have been cheated on and have cheated. If you know you've never been cheated on or you've never cheated, raise your hand. Oya move to one side, I'll attend to you later. I also know for certain that cheating is not a mistake.
You see, a mistake is when you mean to type 'A' and then you type 'E' instead, or you mean to put salt in your soup but you put sugar instead because their containers look alike. Cheating is therefore not a mistake, since you do not trip and land on a dick or loose your footing and land inside a vagina- whenever that is possible, then cheating is allowed to be a mistake.
I hope y'all know that the cheating I'm talking about does not refer exclusively to sex? See, when you're emotionally cheating it's even worse. You know that person you have those mushy chats with late at night after you've told your girlfriend at 8pm, or the guy you send pictures of your boobs who isn't your boyfriend, or the one you exchange those lovey dovey messages with? That right there is cheating my friends.
Now tell me again how cheating is a mistake. At least if the first message or nude picture you sent was a mistake, which I strongly doubt, the subsequent ones nko?
Even the famous one-night stands are premeditated consciously or subconsciously. No matter how stoned or drunk you are. if cheating on your partner has never crossed your mind before, if the girl like make her ynash be like Beyonce, Kim and Nicki combined, you throway face. If you didn't discuss having a one-night stand with your bestie 2 weeks ago, no matter how much the guy looks like Morris Chestnut or Terrence J, you will look the other way when he comes.
You go to a guy's place, and he drugged you and had sex with you. We should sue that guy but slap you for going there in the first place. What were you thinking he invited you over for? To look at his cute baby pictures together? Babe abeg no vex, but you dull.
So my lovelies, that's how I see it, what's your view on the matter? *claps hands in glee* I can't wait to see your comments.
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Till the next time I see you again, Stay Beautiful n Handsome, and STOP CHEATING